Catalina in a Day: Best Things to Do, Eat & See on This Hidden Gem Island

Let me tell y’all about my day in Catalina Island aka one of the most unexpectedly beautiful little escapes I’ve been to lately. It definitely gives very much little Italy. I’m sure The California natives don’t find this as a gem. For the rest of us this is my take. I stopped there on a Carnival cruise and even though I was only there for the day, I did a lot and still left feeling like I need a full weekend trip next time with my future husband.

First stop? The Submarine Tour.

Yes, I went full tourist mode and got in one of those semi-submarine boats, and it was actually really cool. Yes I know it may sound scary, but we weren’t going to the bottom of the Atlantic Ocean. You’re not fully underwater, but you’re low enough to see the fish and coral, and they even give you fish food to shoot out so the fish swarm right in front of your window. It’s fun and chill, and you can bring kids or go solo like me. Either way, it’s a peaceful little start to your Catalina day.

Everything I booked was via Viator right here. One place where I know the reviews are real.

Beach Time Done Right

After the tour, I headed straight for Descanso Beach. You can rent a beach chair and umbrella (which I did because I’m not built for that direct sun anymore), and just vibe. There’s also a beach club right there if you want drinks or snacks while you lounge.

And if you’re trying to get around and explore more of the island, definitely rent a golf cart. That’s how most people move around Avalon, and it’s a fun way to see the hills, neighborhoods, and those crazy views from above the harbor. There’s even a botanical garden tucked away up the hill if you’ve got time.

How to Get There (if you’re not cruising like I did)

If you’re in SoCal, you can take the ferry from Long Beach, San Pedro, Dana Point, or Newport Beach. The ride is only about an hour and the views on the way are a whole vibe too. It’s a perfect weekend getaway without needing to hop on a plane.

Where to Eat – My Top 5 Picks

Yes, I peeked into menus and did some food stalking so y’all don’t have to. There are only so many restaurants I can try in a day.

Bluewater Avalon – Fresh seafood and waterfront views. Get the clam chowder and thank me later. The Lobster Trap – Dive-y in the best way. Casual, great fish tacos. Descanso Beach Club – Eat, drink, beach. Repeat. Lloyd’s of Avalon – Candy and ice cream heaven. Perfect for a little sweet treat before heading back to the boat or ferry. Maggie’s Blue Rose – Cute spot for Mexican food and margaritas.

Where to Stay If You’re Doing an Overnight Trip

If I had more than a day, these are the places I’d check out:

Hotel Atwater – Chic but not too pricey. Great location near the pier. Pavilion Hotel – Right on the beach walk. Cozy vibes and includes wine hour! Aurora Hotel – A little tucked away, quiet, and has a rooftop deck. Seaport Village Inn – Family-friendly and affordable. Zane Grey Pueblo Hotel – For the views alone. It sits above town and has a nice historic feel.

Final Thoughts

My daughter and I loved it very much. It’s a place I felt a peace at. Most people who love on the island get around by walking, biking, or renting golf carts. Residents even have to apply for a permit to have their own car. & it is usually one car per household. I learned a lot from the walking tour as well. Catalina is giving romantic getaway, solo self-care retreat, and girls’ trip energy all in one. Whether you’re cruising in like I did, or taking the ferry over from the coast, the island’s charm hits you right away. The water is clear, the pace is slow, and there’s just something magical about it. I really enjoy it. The fact I think about it often means I need to go again. Next time, I’m staying longer. And maybe doing zip-lining. Or kayaking. Or both.

Sike! I’m not that bold yet.

Until then… Catalina, I’ll be back.

My First International Birthday: A Solo Trip to the Bahamas

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For my 30th birthday, I decided to treat myself to something truly special my first international trip! I chose to stay at the Hotel Riu Palace Paradise Island, an adults-only resort in the Bahamas. It was the perfect getaway, offering stunning beachfront views, delicious food, and endless drinks to celebrate my milestone birthday.

The resort was filled with couples and groups of friends, but honestly, I never felt lonely. Everyone was so friendly, and the staff were genuinely welcoming. Although the men in the Bahamas, along with some of the hotel staff, were quite flirtatious, I didn’t feel unsafe at any point. That was until I had an odd experience on the beach. A gentleman staying at the resort approached me and asked if I was also staying there. He even went so far as to ask what floor I was on. I was completely stunned and immediately recorded the exchange. After a brief conversation, I was able to politely get him to leave.

I was proud to have planned and booked everything myself. From airport transfers to activities, I handled it all! I booked a walking food tour and another van tour, both through Viator. I also made sure to arrange my cab service ahead of time for smooth airport pickups and drop-offs. I did have one experience with a driver who I wouldn’t book again. Although nothing about his service was overtly wrong, his flirtation was uncomfortable and off-putting.

The Bahamas as a whole was absolutely amazing, and I’d definitely return to Riu Palace Paradise Island again. That said, I’d prefer to explore other locations to compare. For solo travelers, this hotel is a perfect first stop, but I would recommend taking a few precautions. I’d suggest purchasing a door stopper for added security and being mindful of your surroundings, especially when traveling alone.

A highlight of my stay was when they upgraded my room at check-in to celebrate my birthday and even offered me a complimentary drink. Such a thoughtful touch!

Overall, my first international birthday trip was unforgettable. The Bahamas welcomed me with open arms, and I can’t wait for my next solo adventure.

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Visiting Atlanta for the First Time? Here’s Everything You Need to Know

I moved to Atlanta in 2010 to attend college. Back then, rent was $650, and the city still had that raw, electric charm. A lot has changed gentrification is in full swing, parking prices make no sense, and some of the staple spots are long gone. But Atlanta still knows how to show out. Whether you’re coming for the culture, the food, or just to vibe, let me help you figure out your game plan for visiting ATL for the first time.

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Historic Stops That Still Hit

Start with some of the soul of the city:

Martin Luther King Jr. National Historical Park:

Walk through Dr. King’s neighborhood, visit Ebenezer Baptist Church, and take in the history.

The Atlanta University Center: Tour the campuses of Spelman, Morehouse, and Clark Atlanta Black excellence lives here.

Sweet Auburn District : A once thriving hub of Black owned businesses, with deep civil rights roots.

The Wren’s Nest : Home of Joel Chandler Harris, who published African-American folktales like the Uncle Remus stories. History, but told with a side eye.

Best Wing Spots in the City

Let’s not play, wings are serious business in Atlanta.

American Deli – You can’t go wrong. Hot lemon pepper wet? Say less. Be aware all of them aren’t the same. The West End Mall one gets great reviews. Since I am in metro Atlanta, my go to one is on Lawrenceville Hwy.

J.R. Crickets: Their signature “lemon pepper sprinkles” started a movement.

Wing Bar: Off Candler Rd. and still undefeated.

Trap City Chicken: Fire flavor combos with ATL attitude.

Soul Food That Feeds the Spirit

Pull up with an appetite:

Busy Bee Cafe: A historic Black-owned staple since 1947. Fried chicken, collards, cornbread.

Mary Mac’s Tea Room: Touristy? A little. But the food is legit Southern comfort.

Paschal’s: Where civil rights leaders used to break bread. The legacy lives on in the food.

Brunch Spots to Bookmark

We take brunch seriously here. Drinks flowing. Music loud. Plates stacked, and grass walls.

Breakfast Boys : Black-owned, brunch vibes on 10.

Toast on Lenox : Trendy but worth the wait.

Milk and Honey: Get the shrimp and grits and thank me later.

The Breakfast Bar : For chill brunch energy with solid Southern staples.

Things to Do With Kids (Or Your Inner Kid)

Georgia Aquarium : One of the largest in the world. Whales, sharks the usual.

Zoo Atlanta: Elephants, gorillas, and pandas? Yup. World of Coca-Cola. Learn the history, taste global flavors, leave hyped up.

Sloomoo Institute Atlanta : Get slimed and live out your childhood dreams.

World of Coca-Cola (Downtown): A fun experience for all ages.

Six Flags Over Georgia: For thrill-seekers and adrenaline junkies.

Where to Stay: Best Areas and Hotels

Stay where you can access the fun without the stress:

Midtown : Central, walkable, artsy. Hotels: The Starling, Loews Atlanta, Moxy Midtown.

Downtown : Close to attractions. Hotels: Marriott Marquis, Hotel Clermont.

Buckhead: Bougie energy, great shopping. Hotels: InterContinental, Waldorf Astoria. Old Fourth Ward – If you want a more local feel near Ponce City Market.

Bonus: Metro Atlanta Gems

If you’re venturing outside the city:

Buford Highway : A multicultural food paradise. Tacos, pho, Korean BBQ, bubble tea, just go.

Duluth: Great sushi, Korean cafes, boba shops. Chill suburb with global flavor.

Catch a Game: ATL Sports Scene

If you’re in town during these seasons, check out a game:

Atlanta Braves (MLB) : April to October. Games at Truist Park.

Atlanta Hawks (NBA) : October to April. Games at State Farm Arena.

Atlanta Falcons (NFL) : September to January. Mercedes-Benz Stadium.

Atlanta United FC (MLS) : February to October. Also at Mercedes-Benz and the crowd stays lit.

ATL Vibe (Pro Volleyball) : March to June. Catch the new energy.

Atlanta Dream (WNBA): May to September. Games are held at Gateway Center Arena in College Park. The energy is top tier.

Nightlife Picks (Let’s Get Into It)

Whether you want to two-step or twerk, Atlanta’s got a spot:

Rock Steady : Afrobeat, R&B, real grown and sexy energy.

MJQ Concourse : Underground vibes, eclectic mix. Hip hop to indie.

Revel: Located in West Midtown, Revel is one of Atlanta’s newer nightlife.

Bulldogs: (LGBT) scene.

Suite Lounge : R&B Wednesdays go crazy.

Fellaship.ATL (Downtown): This upscale cigar lounge and restaurant, co-owned by NFL star Cam Newton

Candlelight Concert Series. For a more chill night, live music by candlelight in cool venues.

Atlanta Experiences That Hit Different

High Museum of Art (Midtown): A must see for art lovers.

Indiehouse Modern Fragrance Bar (Alpharetta): Make your own custom fragrance or candle while sipping drinks and relaxing in a chic setting.

Jeju Sauna (Duluth): A 24/7 Korean spa experience with heated rooms, communal spaces, and body scrubs.

Atlanta Botanical Garden: A peaceful 30-acre garden in Midtown

Illuminarium (Beltline): Immersive 360-degree projections that take you to outer space, wildlife adventures, and the deep sea.

The Dirty Tea: A unique tea lounge offering an elevated experience with creative twists on traditional teas.

Painting with a Twist (Multiple Locations): Sip wine, paint, and laugh no art skills required. A fun and easy way to unleash your creative side.

Radio Stations That Keep You Tapped In

If you really want to feel the city, Atlanta radio keeps you in the know with music, events, and culture. Hot 107.9 is the spot for hip hop and new music, with hosts that stay tapped into the streets. V-103 blends R&B, throwbacks, and current hits with city news, interviews, and events. Streetz 94.5 keeps it extra raw and community-focused for indie artists and unfiltered vibes. Want to switch it up? Power 96.1 and Star 94.1 are your go to pop stations, playing Top 40 hits and keeping you updated on mainstream music and celeb news. For soulful sounds and community topics, check out KISS 104.1, or dive deeper with WRFG 89.3, Atlanta’s community radio station.

Instagram Accounts to Follow for Events, Food, and What’s Hot

Keep your feed full of what’s going on in the city:

@ATLPeachyEats @ExploreGwinnett @HungryHomegirl @VibesATL @ATL.Hotspots @AtlantaFoodFinders @EventsAndFestivalsPage

Be in the know:

@atluncensorednews

@atlscoop

Final Thoughts

Atlanta has its good and bad like all major cities. The culture, chaos, creativity, and community is what makes it unique . Whether you’re here for the food, the music, the history, or the turn up, there’s something here that’ll leave a mark on you. No one should ever be bored when there is so much to do. Whether in the city or metro Atlanta. Just make sure you don’t touch down thinking you can see it all in one weekend. ATL deserves more than a quick trip. Soak it in slow.

My Gag City Experience: Seeing Nicki Minaj Live for the First Time

I’ve been a die hard Nicki Minaj fan since I was 17 years old.

I remember discovering her on a Gucci Mane mixtape before she was a household name. Back then, I was telling everyone about this dope rapper who was about to blow up, but no one knew who she was yet. What drew me to her? Her lyrics. Nicki’s ability to speak to me, to make me feel like “omg girl, me too” was unmatched. I’ve always been confident in myself, even when others tried to shrink me, and Nicki made me feel like I wasn’t alone in that.

Fast forward to 2010, when Pink Friday dropped. I was a broke college student at the time, and that album? Couldn’t afford it. But fate stepped in. My roommate, who I had been blasting Nicki’s mixtapes for months, became a fan too. She bought the album, and I’m pretty sure she only let me listen to it on her terms. Let me tell you, I was lucky if I could even touch the damn thing! It was an era of borrowed music and borrowed moments, but hey, it was still a win.

Years passed, I grew up, and finally, I had grown up money to go see my girl live. I’d never seen her in concert before, and I was NOT going to let this opportunity slip by in case she decided to take a hiatus or retire. So, when the Gag City Tour came to Atlanta on March 20, 2024, I had to be there.

It was a sold out show, and let me tell you, the nerves were REAL. The day before, Nicki had to cancel her New Orleans show because she got sick, and the whole crowd was on edge, wondering if she’d make it to Atlanta. But, thank the music gods, she did. And when she did, she showed up and showed OUT.

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As for my outfit, I was ready to slay in pink, but I didn’t want to look like a walking highlighter. I hired a driver to take me to and from the show because, honestly, I hate driving and wanted to arrive in style. Plus, I deserved a night out to see my favorite artist. And going solo? No problem. I’ve learned to ride solo because I’m tired of people canceling plans or ruining my important moments. If I want to go to a concert or on vacation, I’m taking myself.

The concert felt like one big party. I had gag city VIP tickets, but I opted out of the lounge. I’m in my 30s now, and the thought of being in the mix with a bunch of rowdy folks didn’t sound like my vibe. So I went to my seat in Sec 120, Row FF, Seat 17. Perfect view close to stage.

DJ Boof, Nicki’s longtime friend, was there to get the party started. The energy was contagious as we all danced and sang along to her feature songs and mixtape hits. He even mixed in songs from other artists, and the whole arena was vibing. The crowd was filled with people who truly get Nicki no bots here, just real fans. I’m over here doubting my outfit, but people were complimenting me left and right, which boosted my confidence even more.

Then, the moment we all waited for Nicki took the stage. When she came out to “I’m the Best” from Pink Friday, you could feel the electricity in the air. The place erupted.

She had Monica on stage too, and the vibe between them was fire. I could tell Nicki was still recovering from being sick, but she gave it 100%. The outfits, the dancers, the stage design it was all top-tier, nothing cheap about it. Every single seat was filled with real fans who knew the words to every song. And me? I was dancing, singing, living my best life, despite my feet being on fire from the geeked-up boots I decided to wear.

The concert wrapped up with “Starships,” and I’m pretty sure I still haven’t come down from that high. It was an unforgettable experience, and I’ll cherish that night forever. Nicki Minaj? Forever the queen. Funny thing everyone online was accusing Nicki of lying about having the flu and being sick before the show. People were skeptical, but guess what? Three days after the concert, I took a turn myself. I became the sickest I’ve ever been in my life. Turns out, it wasn’t COVID, but I was down for two weeks, just completely knocked out. Turns out, she wasn’t the only one feeling under the weather after all! Was it worth it, absolutely!

Gag City Tour Fun Facts


• Record-Breaking Gross Revenue: The tour amassed over $108.8 million in gross revenue across 70 shows, setting the hugest benchmark for a female rapper’s concert earnings. 


  • Extensive Reach and Demand: Spanning 79 performances across three continents, the tour demonstrated global appeal. The overwhelming demand led to the addition of a second North American leg, featuring 22 additional shows

  • Stellar Attendance Figures: The tour attracted approximately 787,000 attendees, averaging over 11,200 fans per show, reflecting Nicki’s strong fan base. 

  • High-Grossing Performances: Notably, the March 30, 2024, concert at Madison Square Garden generated $2.858 million from 13,700 tickets sold, exemplifying the tour’s success in major markets. 

Our Royal Caribbean Cruise: A Mom & Daughter Getaway on Freedom of the Seas

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Day 1: Miami – Pre-Cruise Vibes

We flew into Miami the day before the cruise, mostly to avoid the risk of something going bad, like missing flight. Trust me, it’s worth it. We stayed at the Holiday Inn Port of Miami which is seriously just a few steps away from Bayside Marketplace. The hotel? A solid choice. It’s clean, central, and has great access to the city without the Miami hustle. I would stay there on a casual Miami vacation, only a one night thing. We walked around Bayside Marketplace, shopped a little and I tried not to buy everything and grabbed food at Bubba Gump Shrimp. A great way to start the trip with zero stress.

Day 2: Embarkation Day – The Process of Trying Not to Lose Your Mind

Miami Cruise Port

If you’re new to cruising, don’t worry. I was too, and I made it through, barely. Embarkation day is chaotic, but not too bad once you get the hang of it. After no breakfast, we headed over to the Port of Miami to board the Freedom of the Seas. Here’s a quick rundown of what to expect:

1. Check-in – You’ll drop off your luggage, go through a security line, and then it’s time for paperwork. Luckily, I checked in online ahead of time, so I wasn’t dealing with a giant line at the desk.

2. Muster Drill – Yes, you’re required to attend. It’s like a fire drill but for cruise ships. Don’t skip it.

3. Getting Onboard – Once you’re through, you’re on the ship! They hand you a key card, which you’ll need for everything. Seriously, you’ll lose it a dozen times before the trip is over. My daughter lost hers day 3.

4. Settling In – So my child was still recovering from a broken leg 2 months before, so we got a balcony room which I highly recommend. This was a concern but she was cleared by the doctor. The room we got because we let Royal pick, but it was far from the elevator. So that was a lesson, pick your own room. We spent the first few hours just getting cozy and adjusting to our “new home” for the next several days.

Day 3: Getting to Know Freedom of the Seas

We immediately hit up Windjammer Café for lunch (because, let’s face it, that’s what you do on a cruise). That was actually not opened yet. So we had EL LOCO FRESH. The ship was gorgeous, and while I know Freedom of the Seas isn’t one of their newer ships, it definitely doesn’t disappoint. I would’ve preferred more dining options, but I was too busy just really admiring the ship, and feeling blessed to be there.

Chops Grille

So here’s the thing: if you’re a first-time cruiser, don’t be like me and assume you’ll just figure it out. Nope. The ship is huge, and you will get lost at least twice before you get the hang of where everything is. We wandered around, took a million pictures, and just checked out the pools and shows. We planned on having my daughter try the kids’ club, but that lasted all of five minutes before she decided it was “too much.” I guess that’s what happens when you’re mature for your age or just too cool for a kids’ club. The process was hectic anyways, the staff wasn’t very helpful and was unorganized. I didn’t needed it but we considered it.

Day 4: CocoCay – A Private Island, Sun, and Overhyped Drinks

Our first port stop was CocoCay, Royal Caribbean’s private island. Now, if you’re expecting a Bahama mama vibe with endless drinks and no responsibilities think again. The island was amazing, but don’t expect luxury beach clubs. It’s laid-back and full of huge seagulls that will take your food faster than you can say “Don’t eat that.” We spent most of the day just chilling by the pool and beach.

The pools and beach were just gorgeous. I just wanted to relax and soak up the sun. We spent hours in water.

Day 5: Nassau – Shopping, Sun, and Some Sketchy Taxi Rides

This was a port day at Nassau, Bahamas. We took a taxi , no we didn’t book an excursion we’re rebels like that. While I’ve been to Nassau a few times, this was my daughter first go-round. Let’s just say, the taxi ride was an experience because in Nassau, anything goes. The driver was friendly but had questionable driving habits. We were in a taxi to the fish fry with a nice couple who was going to Atlantis Paradise Island Resort. We got a good food then back to Junkanoo Beach to be close to port.

We relaxed by the water, enjoyed some local food there was a whole lot of good choices, and I was here for it, and just had a laid back afternoon. If you’re ever in Nassau, don’t expect it to be as “polished” as some of the other islands. My daughter saw the friends she met 2 days ago so she was living her best life with her new friends. Oh, and side note beware of the aggressive panhandlers. I had an experience with some men saying inappropriate things to me in front of my child and it put a bad taste in my mouth. Which sucks!

Day 6: Sea Day – Getting Cozy, Getting Lounged, and Getting Bingo

After a few days busy , we had a Sea Day that was a godsend. We spent the day doing absolutely nothing. Well, except I played bingo and got a bingo card full of nothing. But it was the perfect chill day. My daughter went with her new friends who played golf and the games on ship and arcade. Probably at 10 ice cream cones…each. I wandered , ate, shopped and went to the casino.

Last Night Of Cruise

The final dinner that night was beautiful and a great way to end the trip. I made sure to tip the waiter I had every night. The staff ate truly what makes the experience great.

After the Cruise: One More Night in Miami at YVE Hotel

Once we docked, it was time to disembark. As a first-timer, I thought getting off the ship was going to be a nightmare. Nope. We had the 9:30 AM checkout time because I’m an overachiever and it was smooth. We grabbed breakfast at Windjammer and then we were off the ship and onto the hotel.

We stayed at YVE Hotel in Miami, just to hang out for one more night before flying back to Atlanta. It’s a nice, no-frills spot to rest your head after all the excitement. It wasn’t much, but it was exactly what we needed.

End Of The Road

Disembarkation is always a bit of a hustle, but it’s all part of the cruise experience. It’s like the reality check that you’ve had your fun, and now it’s time to get back to real life. The process starts early, so don’t expect to sleep in. You’ll get a color-coded luggage tag, which is your golden ticket to figuring out when you’re supposed to head down to disembark. The ship’s crew gives you clear instructions, but there’s still that moment of, “Am I doing this right?” The lines can be long, and while you’re waiting to get off, you’re just thinking about how you could go for one more meal at the Windjammer or one more show. But soon enough, you’re off the ship and into the chaotic yet orderly madness of the port. It’s a little sad, but the feeling of relief when you’ve cleared customs and finally get your bags is feels good too. 

The Verdict – Would I Cruise Again?

The short answer is, yes. Would I cruise with Royal Caribbean again? Definitely. I loved it. Freedom of the Seas was perfect for a first-timer like me, and I felt safe, comfortable, and kinda badass by the end of it. Even with my daughter who recovered from a broken leg, she did so good and had no issues .

Now, if you’re cruising with kids or solo, prepare to be patient. Things can get busy, but that’s part of the fun. There’s something about being surrounded by water for days that makes you feel like you can conquer anything. It can get scary at night looking into the dark sea, if you have a balcony.

So, yeah book it. Don’t stress it. And go live your best life on a ship with questionable Wi-Fi.

Must-Do Things Before You Cruise:

1. Check in online to make the check-in process smooth and quick.

2. Pack a travel folder with all your paperwork (passports, boarding passes, etc.).

3. Download the cruise line app for easy access to schedules and activities.

4. Call ahead if you have specific questions about dining or accessibility.

5. Arrive early to give yourself time to adjust before the big day!

How to Stay Safe as a Woman Solo Traveling Abroad


“Waiting for permission to travel? You’ll be waiting forever your passport won’t stamp itself.”

Solo travel as a woman? Is it your 1st time? No worries I got you. It’s one of the most empowering and exhilarating things you can do. But let’s be real: the real adventure isn’t just about soaking up culture, tasting exotic food, and snapping pics for Instagram. It’s about staying safe while you’re out there. Traveling solo means you’re in control of your own trip—so let’s talk about how to stay in control and make sure you stay safe, secure, and savvy on your next adventure.

1. Knowledge is Your Superpower

You’re a smart woman, right? Then you know how important it is to do your homework before stepping foot in a new place. No, I’m not talking about memorizing every street name (unless you’re really that into it, in which case, you go!). I mean getting a feel for the safety, culture, and local norms. Research is your best friend.

• Enroll in the STEP Program (Smart Traveler Enrollment Program): Sign up for the U.S. Department of State’s STEP program. Trust me, it’s a lifesaver. STEP gives you real-time alerts on safety, health advisories, and more. And if things go south, your embassy knows you’re there, and they can help you out. https://mytravel.state.gov/s/step

• Save the Embassy Info: You might think you’ll never need it, but trust me, it’s better to be safe than sorry. Save the U.S. embassy’s phone number and address on your phone—and do the old-school thing and write it down too. Stick it in your wallet or purse. You never know when you’ll need a backup.

2. Trust Your Instincts—Always

This is going to sound super simple, but it’s so important: trust your gut. If something feels off, it probably is. You’re not paranoid; you’re smart. Your instincts are often the best defense you’ve got. Don’t ignore that little voice in your head.

3. Protect Your Stuff—Don’t Let Your Guard Down

You know those people who claim they never lock their doors at home because “nothing’s going to happen”? Yeah, don’t be one of those people. When you’re traveling, your stuff is your lifeline. Don’t take unnecessary risks with it.

• Lie Like a Pro: You’re alone, and that’s okay, but you don’t have to broadcast it to the world. If someone asks where your “group” is, don’t tell them you’re solo. Lie a little. Say they’re resting or on their way. It’s a simple trick to keep you under the radar and avoid attracting unwanted attention. The safer you stay, the more you can enjoy your trip.

• Never Leave Your Passport in the Hotel Room: It might seem like an easy choice, but leaving your passport in your hotel room is a big no-no. Either keep it on you (in a safe, hidden spot) or lock it in a safe. You can have fun without risking your passport getting stolen. Plus, it’s a hassle to replace it. Trust me.

• Anti-Theft Bags Are Your Best Friend: Invest in a travel bag with lockable zippers or RFID-blocking features. It might look a little geeky, but it’ll save you from some major headaches. When you’re a tourist, people notice. A bag that’s easy to open is an invitation for someone to try. Make sure yours is locked up tight.https://amzn.to/4hE3OSd

4. Stay Connected—You’re Not Alone (Even When You’re Alone)

Just because you’re out there on your own doesn’t mean you need to feel isolated or unprepared. Stay connected, stay in the loop, and know how to find your way around.

• Download Key Apps: Technology is your travel buddy when used wisely.

• Translator App: If you’re heading to a non-English-speaking country, a translation app like Google Translate can help you communicate, whether you’re ordering food or trying to ask for directions.

• Currency Converter App: You don’t want to pay $20 for a $5 bottle of water just because you got confused by the exchange rate. Currency apps will keep you in check.

• Offline Maps: Sometimes you’re not going to have Wi-Fi, and that’s okay—download offline maps before you leave. Google Maps and Maps.me can keep you on track even when you’re out of service range.

• Know the Emergency Numbers: Let’s face it—stuff happens. And when it does, you need to know who to call. Research emergency numbers for your destination country. Pro tip: phone providers like T-Mobile will send you the local emergency number as soon as you land. Keep it handy.

5. Choose Reliable Transportation—Don’t Risk It

You’ve heard the stories about sketchy taxis, right? Now, I’m not saying all taxis are bad, but if you want to err on the side of safety, don’t take the risk.

• Use Rideshare Services: Ubers or Lyfts are more trackable, and you can share your ride details with a friend or family member. Taxis can be hit or miss, but rideshares have an extra layer of accountability.

• Avoid Taxis if You’re Uncomfortable: If something feels off about the driver or their car, trust your gut. It’s better to wait for a reputable ride than to take unnecessary risks.

6. Stay Aware—You’re Not in a Hollywood Movie

This isn’t the time to zone out with your AirPods in every second of the day. You need to be aware of where you are, who’s around you, and how to react if something goes wrong.

• Plan Your Route: If you’re out at a club or bar, know how far it is from your accommodation. Make sure your driver knows your drop-off point and that they’re taking the right route. If you’re heading to a sketchy area, don’t hesitate to ask to be dropped off at a safer spot. If anything feels weird, stay alert.

• Never Pull Out All Your Cash: You’re a woman traveling alone, and someone is likely watching. Don’t pull out all your cash at once. Instead, take out only what you need for the moment. It’s about keeping a low profile and not showing all your cards.

7. Small Security Investments for Big Peace of Mind

Sometimes the extra mile in terms of preparation really makes all the difference.

• Hidden Camera for Your Hotel Room: I’m not saying you’re going to walk into a hotel and find a secret camera (though that could happen), but investing in a small, discreet hidden camera can give you peace of mind. If you’re staying somewhere unfamiliar, or you’re just extra cautious, it’s an affordable way to make sure everything’s on the up-and-up.https://amzn.to/41SeIOq

• Carbon Monoxide Alarm: Not the most glamorous travel accessory, but a small, portable carbon monoxide alarm can save your life in a hotel with old or faulty heating. It’s easy to forget the potential hazards of unfamiliar accommodations—especially when you’re sleepy and just want to crash. https://amzn.to/3Fr9bqy

8. Packing List—Essentials You Didn’t Think of

Okay, now let’s talk packing, because even though we all love that cute luggage set, it’s not going to do you much good if you’re missing the essentials.

Here’s a quick rundown of what you’ll want to bring:

• Bandages and Ointments (for blisters, cuts, or those mysterious bug bites that somehow always show up when you’re abroad)

• Tummy Ache Medicine (trust me, you’ll thank me later)

• A Door Lock or Jammer (You know, for when you need that extra peace of mind at night) https://amzn.to/426PEVi

• Waterproof Pouch for Your Passport (don’t risk it getting soaked in a downpour or during a beach outing)

• Hidden Camera (again, not to be paranoid, but it can really give you that extra layer of security)

• Portable Carbon Monoxide Detector (because you’re a woman who’s prepared for anything)

• Backup Phone Charger and a Power Bank (because your phone will always run out of juice at the most inconvenient times)

• Pain Relief Medicine (because we all know you don’t want to get stuck in a foreign country without something for that headache)

• Multi-purpose Scarf or Wrap (extra warmth, privacy, or a makeshift beach towel—you’ll find a hundred uses for it)

Packing smart isn’t just about fitting everything in your bag; it’s about making sure you’ve got what you need for any situation that comes your way.

Girl you’re ready to pack your bags and hit the road, knowing you’re fully prepared for anything that comes your way. Stay safe, trust your instincts, and most importantly enjoy the adventure!